Negative Emotions Associated with Conflict or Change

Negative Emotions Associated with Conflict or Change
Let’s examine the negative emotions associated with the terror barrier or conflict.
Fear, frustration and lack of control are the most common ones, I have an entire article titled "Change of Focus" posted on www.AcquiredHope.com and book "Acquired Hope" that details all of the negative emotions dealing with coping with change. Overcoming these negative emotions and getting the results you want often comes with a change in perspective.

Frustrations and fear often develop out of feelings of a lack of control. Understand this, control, in the sense of determining an absolute outcome or result, is usually limited to oneself. You cannot control another person. All you can do is control your own thoughts, feelings and actions. When you understand this, you stop wasting time, energy and effort trying to control others, and you learn to focus your energy on creating the appropriate thoughts, which lead to only positive feelings, inspired actions and hence a new set of conditions, circumstances and environments, which lead to new results. These will be the results of your liking, as these are results that you have chosen. You and only you have now created this new set of results.

Now, you cannot control other human beings, but you do have the ability to influence people and therefore influence results. The art of influencing involves persuasion, enticing or swaying the other person to adopt your point of view, your reflection point, your opinion or in the sales world, your product. They often say that closing a sale is merely getting the other person to adopt your belief in your product. You have successfully influenced their actions and believe to be in alignment with yours.

What most people want is control over outcomes, but rarely do they have the personal power to make changes to secure the cooperation of other and truly achieve the results they want.

Learn this skill, obtain this power, it is all about awareness. Learn to choose your results: www.ChooseYourResults.com

Begin to Choose Your Results

Many of us are currently challenged with at least one issue in our lives that we are not comfortable with because it is moving in a direction toward a result we do not like. This experience and awareness can cause a lot of personal frustration, fear or other negative emotions and cloud our image or focus of personal success.

We all have tendencies to feel either overly responsible or under concerned and while these emotions are complete opposites, they lead to the same end result: passivity. Feeling that one is overly responsible can cause us to want to make changes in things that we cannot or even possibly should not. This can effect leave us feeling overwhelmed, fearful and may cause us to retreat or shut down as to not have to deal with the issue. Being under concerned can cause us to ignore or delay important changes that we need to initiate and lead to passivity in our very lack of engagement. Part of choosing your results is learning and understanding when to take effective action and when to let go of issues. This can save us time, energy, frustration and needless worry, while at the same time produce the results we are seeking. We become more involved in taking effective action and more engaged in our plan.

Begin to choose your results, achieve a higher level of awareness.

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